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[figgeroni]

informality is good

and

I am glad you were able to have an OK night

remember that
feeling

of it not being great but it not being as horrible as you imagined

things are often a million times worse in our imaginations (at least mine...I have a pretty wicked one


(and you are damn right to have confronted him about using joint money...you are still married...to fly someone out)