Thank you guys.

You're right, we're separated since the 10th of June.

We never agreed on what the separation should be. I just left after she told me that if it wasn't me, it would be her to leave.

As I was in shock for the first two weeks, I avoided any conversation. After that, I spent another two weeks recovering from the mess I was in. Now I think it's time to understand what's going on, what's this "limbo" we're both living in.

Makes sense?


Me: 36
Wife: 33
Together: 09/2007
Married: 03/2010
I love you but...: 06/2011
Separated: 06/2011
Rebuilding: 11/2011