DG, he's writing June 10th... my guess British or Australian.
LR, what are *your* thoughts as to the breakdown of your M? Generally, the advice is *not* to have R talks until you are piecing your R back together. It may seem like the right and instinctive thing to do now, but it's our instincts that get a lot of us into trouble in the first place.
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011