Hi Ken Just popping in to say hi and offer some support. Like you, I have a tendency to over analyze. It drives me crazy when things don't make sense. I always need to know why. Sometimes the motivation can be realized much further down the road, but not while standing in the muck. I'm not very familiar with your situation, but one thing I know about a cheating spouse is that the as a general rule - they lie. Don't believe what she says. I think honest communication and eye contact is always important when possible. But what you should be focusing on is you and the kids. Don't let her see the agony you are in. Fake it til you make it. Be light, happy, busy. When plagued with worries and negative thoughts, replace them with thoughts about the things you should be concentrating on. Replace a bad thought with a good one. What can you do to make you a better and happier person? What are your gal goals? Be on your path with or without her.
