Originally Posted By: Tad
S16 confirmed that she is still talking to OM, but I still get the feeling that it has cooled down.


Whether your W is dragging your son into this deliberately or he is taking the initiative...

I would remove him (and protect him) from the relationship you currently have with his mother.

She will do things to jeopardize what S16 thinks of her and his relationship with her.

You can't help that.

Just don't contribute to it. She is still his mother. Don't let your anger and confusion about your W is doing to you undermine that fact.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am