[quote=Blown away]Yesterday I almost lost it when my W told me she was on the pill.
Then, today she was talking about the money spending and said she thought I might have been on a date. She said she would have been okay with it. [quote]

If she is ok with you on a date that's a warning sign that she is ok with her on a date. I know that snooping is a no-no on this forum, but i smEllen an affair. Sometimes it's good to know what you are dealing with. My w started a friendship on Facebook with an of friend who was going through a d that evolved into a n Ea then a Pa now i'm getting a D.

Me 46 W 43
M 17
S 14
D 11
ILYB 9/2010
EA began July/August 2010 ?
PA began Nov/Dec 2010 ?
I began DB in Jan 2011
I filed 7/12/11
Kids and I moved out 7/30/11
I'm in it for the kids and me.