Can My Marriage Be Saved, Pt 2

[a girl]

2x4s, I don't know.

He was in the living room and he was talking about the house he looked at and how it wasn't ok - "It's not .. I can't ... S can't be there. I can't have him at a place like that."

And he was so sad, and I .. I just went over and hugged him and said, "I don't hate you." He hugged me back for a while.

And then I left and I'm back to trying to just be polite and get through the next two weeks. But I feel weak. Why should I comfort him through the pain he's causing me?