Johnny16. My guess: There is an OM. She is ashamed of it, but she is infatuated with this man. She wants to hide this until you two are separated and then make it look like it just happened. You may be a very handsome man but she is "in love" with "falling in love" and to her right now you are "boring". I do not know what you can do to save this, since I was not able to do it in my case but I do know that you will regret humiliating and disrespecting your self by begging her to stay or taking crumbs from her so don't do it.
Me 39 W 37 S 5 D 2.75 Married 12 years Together 14 years Bomb Dropped 08/16/10
