First off unless requested by some legal authority I would not give her chit. She is gonna get pisses off. She may yell. She may have a tantrum. Right now you need to do for you.
That said, I may get critized for this comment and that's fine...
Tad chances are you will get divorced. Does the possibility exist that you will not? Yes...but personally I would plan your life for you. Without her in it. Can this change in the future? Yep. For now protect yourself.
Stop for a second and realize a few things.....
She has said some pretty nasty chit to you
She has left the house
She has gone hot then cold then hot
She removed your pictures from the alt
She has trashed you
She has blamed you for everything
She has kicked you when you were down
Now stop and realize YOU MY BROTHER ARE STILL STANDING.
That Tad is strength...not mine, not j3b, not aim, not antonia, not 25, not grit, not mhl, not PEI....mole YOUR STRENGTH BROTHER YOURS AND YOURS ALONE.
stop being afraid of the divorce. Stop being afraid to get pissed off. Stop being afraid to speak truth. Stop it.
Your a good guy tad. I see it and many others do. Do you?
Do for you Tad...look away from her.
Now close your eyes......picture yourself a year from now.....nice tan, your working, kids are happy, your getting dress ready to go hit the night life..you look over at a amazing women next to you. Can you see it.....
This could be your life dude.....ya have to go get it. You have to want it.
Your choice.
Oh......the amazing women......well she could be your wife.....you can decide that Tad. Your MOTHERFU&KING CHOICE!
First you must let go Tad....must let go. Let go of her, let go of fear, let go of everything in your life that causes you pain...let it all go..even the guilt.
You got this man.....you do.
Finally a poster here is a friend of yours on the alt. He is one of my friends to. If ya want friend me....my contact info is on the alt....
Your not alone.....do not be afraid....
God Bless eric
Back to the pool I go.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
