She has also been doing more family things as we. That is why I am so confused. I really think she is really confused about where her life is going and she is blaming the marriage.

The big things she had a problem with in our marriage was I had gotten severely depressed. I didn't work much because of that. I have now found a job I love and am now the main bread winner.

I am just being patient and taking care of myself and waiting for her to pull out of her funk.

I have lost 35 pounds and am still working on my physical and mental health. She has taken notice and is always talking about the future. Thanks is why I think she will come around. I'm just not jumping the gun and start talking about us.


Me: 39 W : 34
M: 8 1 / 2 yrs
D: 7
ILYBINILWY: 3 / 4 / 2011