Walking in Muskeg - Part IV - Squishy Rubber Boots

[Queen_of_Swords]

You admit everywhere you have a hard time letting go of resentment, getting past your many grudges against your H, your pessimism is palpable.

I know that I have a negative mindset. It's tremendous effort for me to see positives, and I do tend to easily dismiss them. I had no idea my pessimism is "Palpable".
I am working on changing that.

I NEVER hear on these threads that your H has the negativity and resentments--he doesn't seem to EVER snap at you, ever act ugly to you, he seems to ENJOY your interaction UNTIL you have another change of attitude (which is immediately felt by EVERYONE--not just him)

^^^^HUGE^^^^ POSITIVE^^^^

My H. is a decent and kind man, I have said often that I can recall.

Thank you for pointing that out. I have taken that for granted and focused on the other "stuff" that's not working.


I will think on what you said LauraOh.