They are going to do what they are going to do. LRT means you try to develop a life without telling them about it. To them it looks like you're moving on or at least more mysterious. It will, hopefully, spark their interest in you again. Going Dark is a stage of LRT. Going dark is where you DON'T tell them anything that they don't ask about. And a little ambivalent about what they do ask about. Not counting discussing the kids. At least that's how I understand it.
May God bless you.


M-34
W-31
2 S,11&11
1 D, 6
T 13 YEARS
M 12 YEARS
ILYBINILWY OCT. 2009
We are too close. All we see are smears of paint. The Lord sees the masterpiece He is painting.