Baby steps Liz...baby steps...I hope things work out for you. The fact that he refused her advance while you were gone it a good thing. The fact that he wasn't talking to her while on the road is even better. Remember to appreciate the little positives coming your way. I wish my sitch was turning around in a way like yours but mine is going completely backwards.
M 27 H 27 M 1yr and 5mths together: 8yrs no kids separated since: 1/26/11 H filed and had me served: 7/6/11