Can My Marriage Be Saved, Pt 2

[a girl]

Done with WH. Came crying to me today aboutnhow he's miserable without OW, they're in love, it's really for real. I told him to get out as fast as possible. I will not live with someone who is doing what he's doing. He seemed taken aback. I don't care. I've spent 6 weeks pouring my heart put in MC, taking every piece of blame he's thrown at me, owned all the bad things about our relationship, while he's been lying and cheating. No more. The sooner I never have to talk to him again, the better.

[~¤DG¤~]

Good for you for setting a boundary and sticking to it.

I know it isn't easy and it hurts like h*ll, but you are doing the right thing.

(((Hugs)))

[a girl]

I feel better and stronger than I have in 6 weeks. I'm looking forward to my freedom and done caring or worrying about him. His "true love" can do that now.

[~¤DG¤~]

I feel better and stronger than I have in 6 weeks. I'm looking forward to my freedom and done caring or worrying about him. His "true love" can do that now.

Good for you. You deserve so much better. Take this time to learn to love you and see what it is that you want out of your life.
I know you said you were in MC together, maybe go to IC instead. It has done a world of difference for me.

[a girl]

Good for you. You deserve so much better. Take this time to learn to love you and see what it is that you want out of your life.
I know you said you were in MC together, maybe go to IC instead. It has done a world of difference for me.

I'm planning on IC. We're going to use the MC (who is a "family therapist") to help us sort out how to handle things with our S. But other than those meetings (which I hope will only be 2-3 more) and the details of him going away, I plan to avoid any conversation with him at all. Once he's out, we can communicate by email. My hope is that by the beginning of August, I no longer have to interact with him.

[a girl]

Doing ok today. 80% of the time, I feel really good. 20%, I don't. But that's much better than the 100% I had yesterday.

[a girl]

Thinking I'll go shopping for some new fall boots after work. I deserve them.

[~¤DG¤~]

I don't even want to think about fall!

The MC is going to work through issues for your S, but still do IC just for you.

[a girl]

Thanks, DG. I'm planning to do IC. After the last 2 months, I need it more than ever.

[a girl]

Trying to figure out the logistics of going dark. He'll be in the house until the end of the month. How can I go dark while living with him and our S?

Guh.