You W wants her to be a priority to you. She wants you to feel that all your own. She doesn't want to force you to make her a priority. If you do it the right way she will see, feel it and and respect you for it.
one of my fav quotes on this:
You can’t respect someone who kisses your a$$. I just doesn’t work”, Ferris Bueller
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
