Originally Posted By: Telemark's voice on the other shoulder
Stay the course. You promised to love her for better or for worse. She is at her worst right now; now is the time to show true unconditional love."
This is truly where unconditional love is at its best - that's when she's at her worst and offering very little, if nothing, in return.
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This is sometimes very, very difficult to reconcile with our own desire not to be taken advantage of and to not be a doormat.
It is up to you to find that balance.
I'm still working at it myself.
Hang in there Tele.
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