180's are changes you make in yourself because you want to, because you see a need for them.
If you're doing these 180's as a temporary solution to fix a problem, that problem will come back once you stop doing them, and you will.
Your wife will see them as a trick because they don't last, and she'll be right.
Sooo...
Are you making 180's because you see the need or feel the want to makes some changes in yourself?
Divorce Busting is the older book, the newer version is called Divorce Remedy and worth getting again.
Another book? Not all men equate sex with love...but enough of them do. The 5 Languages of Love, or something similar. Lets you know what you see as signs of love, but just as important allows you to see what your wife views as symbols of love.
We give what we want. For you? Physical touch...but if that is not your wife's, then she won't respond the same way. She won't give that to you as much as say...Acts of Service.
A worthwhile book to go hand in hand with the DR one.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
