I agree Jack that we need to make the time for MC and date night. And in the past few months or so I have been the one making the arrangements. I need to ramp it up a little and take more inititive like you suggested.
My W keeps asking me what is bothering me and I've told her at least three times that this is a hard time of year for me. Even though I've been mourning in private and trying to put on a happy face in front of the family she can still tell that I'm bothered by it. From the time we started working on the M up until about a week ago I was happy. The kids have been asking about my mother alot lately and it's made this time of year it a little more difficult. Why can't she show a little understanding and compassion during this time?
Once this day passes and it's not going to be on my mind as much I will get back to the old, new me.
There is a difference between knowing the path & walking the path. – Morpheus
