"the other 20% of the time I want to curl up and cry - or set all his stuff on fire."

Why not do both? grin

Just kidding, of course. I've been tempted to put all of W's possessions out on the curb with a big "FREE!" sign.

H 56
W 48
D27,S21
SS25
SS22 Severely autistic
M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs.
"I've never loved you" 3/7/2011
Separated 8/7/2011
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