DG,
when my troubles started I also had a lot of guilt, disappointment, whatever, thinking I could be D twice. I thought to myself 'who'd want to be with a two-time loser'. I thought that one D and maybe you learned from your mistakes, but *two*...

I generally don't think about that anymore. What will be will be and I can't help what others might think. I hope that you can get to this stage also.

Occasional anger is fine. Remember it's all about what you do with it that counts. Hang in there!


Me 43 W 38
M 5 T 7
SD20
S15, S13 with 1st W
ILYBNILWY June 2010
Separation/Bomb July 2010
Divorce Feb 8, 2011