Can My Marriage Be Saved, Pt 2

[a girl]

Good for you. You deserve so much better. Take this time to learn to love you and see what it is that you want out of your life.
I know you said you were in MC together, maybe go to IC instead. It has done a world of difference for me.

I'm planning on IC. We're going to use the MC (who is a "family therapist") to help us sort out how to handle things with our S. But other than those meetings (which I hope will only be 2-3 more) and the details of him going away, I plan to avoid any conversation with him at all. Once he's out, we can communicate by email. My hope is that by the beginning of August, I no longer have to interact with him.