Things have gotten better between my wife and I. I have started the LRT and my W wants to do more together. She decides we need a new kitten and I approved. She took my D and they got one at the local shelter. My W even told me she was thinking about me when she picked out the kitten because she wanted to make sure I liked it too. She also took my D shopping and told me that she was looking for some things for me. She said she is trying not to be as selfish and think more about my D and me.

I talked to my C about all of this and he said she is sending mixed signals. I agree but I think it is because she is a WAW and is confused and needs time to figure things out.

I am not giving in to the signs. I am, sticking to my guns. We are still sleeping in separate beds, and I don't say I love you or talk about our M at all. I see what is happening as baby steps and plan giving it all I've got.

Please tell me I'm going about all of this in the right way. I am doing everything I can to stay strong and not backslide.


Me: 39 W : 34
M: 8 1 / 2 yrs
D: 7
ILYBINILWY: 3 / 4 / 2011