Per my counselors advice I was to contine firing off the text message occasional greeting, even with going N/C. So to instruction I have only fired off two greetings this week. This morning I fired one off....and, he expressed a desire to see the kids more. As it is he sees them once midweek for 4-5 hours, and every other weekend from late Friday afternoon to late Sunday afternoon. Generous by some standards.
I simply validated his desire to see our kids more.
However, what do I say if he keeps pushing? This is what divorce/child custody looks like from my perspective, and this is his intent.
That he wants to renegotiate terms now that I'm seriously going N/C is interesting.
What do you all think?
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.
