I think I've been there lately... I think. It's just today she was extra explosive so I felt that it required extra attention on my part. Although I have to admit that still being mad after her bringing me cookies is a way of being passive aggressive. I'm glad I dropped that and moved on. She did blow up on me one more time tonight. Like you said just letting them slide, and keeping my head up. Once we both clear up and we overcome this "low" I'll discuss how getting yelled at is no way to get her point across.
