I know that kick in the pants feeling, I need one here. All is going well with H, he has been a gem, I just feel a bit lacklustered (is that even a word). Here at the library with a book called Stop Feeling Tired. I feel like I have lead in my bones.
Glad you rowed your own boat, maybe I don't do enough of it myself. It is probably harder for you with work and kids, but probably even more vital to have some fun for yourself.
Keep acting as if and thanking H for the compliments. Nothing is worse than giving a compliment and having someone tell you why you are wrong! So accept them as a fact, even if you don't think you look good, H does! And men can be right in some instances.
