I asked my L if this a "no fault" state and if the judge gives a sh!t about any of this. She said, it is a "no fault" state and the judge doesn't care about what I posted above.

STBX did get into saying that I was an absent husband/father and I showed no interest in caring for her or the kids. All I cared about was that we made enough money to pay the bills and didn't worry about her's or the kids emotional needs.

Oh get this, she said that when her mom moved in, everything went downhill in our marriage. No sh!t!!

Me:45 ExW:48
M:04/97
3 Bombs & 2 ReCons
1st BD 11/10
D Finalized 4/20
D-16 S-14
Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa