I met with my L this afternoon about the response from my STBX and her L. All I can say is wow. The response was lengthy. When I have time, I will post more.

We had to respond to their response as it has to get filed tomorrow morning. This time it was massaged and sounds much better than the first one.

I was wrong about the first EA. I stated that it took place Nov/Dec. She corrected me in her response saying it was from Sept to Dec, however that had nothing to do with her wanting a D. Unbelievable. According to her, the straw that broke the camel’s back was when I asked, “when is your mom going to get a job?”

Obviously I am biased to myself, but really?

She also stated that when we moved to SF, that the house I found was filthy. She continued to say that her and her mom cleaned the entire house and I did not lift a finger or say thank you. Apparently the 2 Uhauls and trailers that we brought up, loaded and unloaded themselves. All the furniture put itself together.

My head was spinning while I was reading it. Talk about changing our history. Most of it was crazy. I realize her POV, but crazy.


Me:45 ExW:48
M:04/97
3 Bombs & 2 ReCons
1st BD 11/10
D Finalized 4/20
D-16 S-14
Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa