I think get yourself 2 tickets to enjoy the circus with your D and leave it alone.

You offered, she accepted and then changed her mind. She is working MyK, don't push her. Let her see that you respect her wishes.

I still feel that you can walk away feeling good about it. At least she considered it.

JMO.

Me:45 ExW:48
M:04/97
3 Bombs & 2 ReCons
1st BD 11/10
D Finalized 4/20
D-16 S-14
Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa