I haven't truly looked into her eyes when we are talking since we were dating, it occurred to me today that, that large part of our communication was missing. I dont know why I havent looked into her eyes more when we talk, i suppose it made me feel uncomfortable because my eye might wander which it does sometimes, but, no matter. I definitely feel like we were starting to connect again on a very basic level. Nice gentle soft talk.
You know I hear what you are writing. I can't relate to the wandering eye thing, but mine was definitely insecurity. I have no specifics other than it was "Nice Guy" syndrome. Inner fears of not being true to yourself kind of thing.
It's amazing when you really fix yourself and learn that you can be a man who is confident in himself. It's just really attractive to women. When they get the feeling that you KNOW who you are, they do like you as much as you like yourself.
Good job Johnnie, but it's a tiny baby step. Just keep getting strong and more confident. It's you that has to look at himself in the mirror every day.
