Thanks SF. All really good feedback!!

BITs need some more feedback. I would really appreciate it.

Wife called me this afternoon to tell me that circus was in her town and she was telling me as FYI incase i wanted take daughter.

This evening she called twice to tell me about some cute stuff daughter did. I then asked her if i should buy 3 tickets so that she too could come with us. She said she would think and let me know.

Then she calls up an hour later. She says it is okay if i get 3 tickets. She said it would be good for daughter to see both of us and enjoy.

I did not express any emotion, but i was extremely happy that she was gonna come. Till now she had declined anything that had her and me.

Then she calls back 2 hours later and asks me if i bought the tickets. I said 'no'. Then she said it is better if only I take daughter to circus as i need to spend time with daughter. She said that she already does stuff with daughter. I asked 'are you sure' and she said 'sure and thanks for asking'. I said ok and hung up.

People, now whatever good stuff i was feeling is gone.

I am not sure if i should have told her that it would be better for daughter. Would it then be pursuing ??

Not sure how to handle this. Help!!!


BITS
M 38
W 36
D 7
Married 15 yrs
W left for 6 months in 2009
W Filed for D 01/03/11
piecing now...