well starsky, i believe she is remorseful a little. She has apologized for what has happened. I also believe that her feelings about OM are real to her. I have to agree that this is a very tough decision for her at this stage. It doesnt matter if i agree with her or not. She knows that i respect her feelings, but i really dont give a sh@* about her feelings for OM. its a mutual arrangement.
As for her crying, she wasnt sobing and making a big show of it, she was sitting with her sunglasses on and the tears were just running down her face. No sobs, no look at poor me.
I have feelings for her, i still love my wife and i do want to make sure she is ok. I didnt display rescueing behaviour, i asked her if she was alright. Simple and straight forward. I didnt offer her my assistance, i didnt try to make her feel better. I asked a question, she answered and that was it, i listened to som metallica and drove home.
