Hi MarcDinFog ~ Tahnks for stopping by. Sorry, guess I should've worded this more clearly - this most recent 180 is too personal to write about. There are quite a few others I have tried, though - all pretty simple and most of them come from ideas I've seen here or in DR:
1. ordering something different for dinner
2. wearing something different - a different style or a color I don't usually wear
3. Different perfume
4. be out when usually I'd be home (early on - a little while after the bomb)
5. send funny emails
6. hire a sitter and go out with friends instead of staying home when H couldn't keep the children


Things like that have really gotten his attention consistently. If I think of others, I'll post them. Where is your thread?

Positives:
1. H helped me with a project for the children last night.
2. We just keep laughing!
3. H continues to be supportive of me and the projects I'm working on - both at home and at work.

Hope you are all doing well. Thank you for your encouragement.

Mockers2 "Somehow we survive, and tenderness frustrated does not wither." Dennis Brutus, South African poet "That which does not kill us makes us stronger." Friedrich Nietzsche