Im just going to give up.

[Queen_of_Swords]

Rue as you can see, I'm around the same age you are.
If I've learned one thing through all this....

This is a good time to start loving YOU.
Appreciate you for all the good qualities you do have, and start improving the ones you don't.
This is NOT about you. I repeat, it is NOT about you.

It is about him and HIS human frailty, HIS fear,HIS anger/resentment.

Rue focus on getting your mojo back, your confidence, your self esteem ,do what makes YOU happy.

Stop living in fear, start living in love for yourself.
Where fear exists love cannot.

I know this sounds so hard, and at first it really is a difficult thing to get your head around.

Your H. did not make you live because he loved you.
Your H. did not create who you are...God did, with and with your help and will you are who you are today.

A marriage is not about two broken halves coming together and making a viable whole. It is about two WHOLE people coming together in joy to ADD to each other's lives.

Your H is broken right now. You are bruised.

Take this time to make yourself whole again.


Just my 2cents