Thanks for writing. I have been told this is the time to find me. Truthfully I dont even know where to begin and truthfully I cant get my mind off of all this. Why doesnt the spouse who is left behind have a say? Why is that? Why is this just H decision? I have no valid reasons what the heck I did wrong. Obviously bad enough for him to seek OW. You are right by saying this is the hardest thing ever. I have done the hair cut the way I want it, I pray, I journal, I have joined support groups but this situation fills my thoughts each minute. What did I do? Why is she better? Have I been dooped all these years? Im so afraid. Im so scared.
