Bingo. In the meantime, enjoy time with your son. Every now and then you can ask him to join you two but not all the time. If you ask him to join you two and he gives you a snarky remark like "oh now you want to talk to me", just say "just thought I'd ask", smile and leave.
In fact, get some fresh flowers for yourself and put it in the house. He'll start getting paranoid and asking where you got it from and even if you told him you got them for yourself, he won't believe you. People in A's will think that their spouse will act and do the same things they do.
Right now you're a stationary target that he can direct all of his frustrations on. Make yourself a MOVING target.
Most importantly be confident and strut your stuff no matter how nasty he gets. Did you ever see the movie "The Waterboy"? In it Adam Sandler pictures the heads of different things on people's bodies to get him confident. Think of a crying baby when your H is going off.
You're making me miserable wah wah! I want my mommy (OW) wah wah!
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
