Can My Marriage Be Saved, Pt 2

[a girl]

He's going to get angrier and moodier, and will try to pull you back into his drama. Right now the absence of the OW is going to create an emotional vacuum that he's going to try and fill with drama from you. After all, you're the reason why he's miserable right? Don't you believe it for a second! Again, think of him as a teenager. What happens when they don't get what they want? They get moody and upset.

This is a good point - thanks for the clarity.

Look at him, tsk tsk and then go about your own way. If he pushes you for an answer for the divorce, go and tell him that he can get the paperwork and you'll look at it when you have time. Then ignore him. Be sure you go out and act like you don't care about what he's doing. Again, think spoiled child.

That's what I was looking for as a response - that way I'm not arguing against it, I'm just not participating.