Can My Marriage Be Saved, Pt 2

[MrBond]

IMHO it's too soon for MC.
I can tell you that he is not going to be receptive at all and in fact is going to act like a spoiled teenager being pulled into the principal's office.

Here's my suggestion, but mind you, you will have to be very strong to do this. Stop hinging on his moods and build up your self confidence. Start dressing to kill when you're around him and go out without telling him where you're going. Go out and have fun with friends. Make yourself happy.

He's going to get angrier and moodier, and will try to pull you back into his drama. Right now the absence of the OW is going to create an emotional vacuum that he's going to try and fill with drama from you. After all, you're the reason why he's miserable right? Don't you believe it for a second! Again, think of him as a teenager. What happens when they don't get what they want? They get moody and upset.

Look at him, tsk tsk and then go about your own way. If he pushes you for an answer for the divorce, go and tell him that he can get the paperwork and you'll look at it when you have time. Then ignore him. Be sure you go out and act like you don't care about what he's doing. Again, think spoiled child.

Stand strong. He's going to implode when you validate that he feels bad, but in no way is it your job to make him feel better. That's his job.