Originally Posted By: tank
picked her up this afternoon, she sat in the passenger seat and said nothing. I tried to engage her on the drive home, she wouldnt talk at all. At one point i looked over and she was crying.

I asked her if she was alright, she said no and that was it.

I turned up the music and let her be. What else could i have done?



Nothing, Tank. In fact, you shouldn't have even asked her if she's alright. It's rescuing behavior, IMHO, and she plays the "poor poor me" martyr thing to suck you into her drama.

Don't jump into the pit with her.


Starsky


M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

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