When I first posted that I was a dope I had ONE dope moment.

Now I have 2

Okay. I've been kinda peeved with my W lately. I mean things have been light and friendly between us but I saw NO movement on anything. Not that I expected any, but it does get tough day-in and day out.

So I had to go another town to get some information for work. While there I decide to text my wife. I had debated whether this was "pursuing" or what it meant...they I said screw it. If I can handle a bad answer I'm okay.

So I texted her: "Hey there I'm in WH for work. If you or your co-workers would like me to pick up something for lunch like Chipotle lemme know"

The idea was that would get her something (she doesn't get to leave the hospital campus that much) for lunch and drop it off.

She texts me back: You want to meet me at [place of work] for lunch?"

So we ended up having lunch. I told her that I had just planned on bringing something by. She said, "I was thinking about calling your for lunch, but I didn't know when I could do it and didn't want to have to cancel. This works our perfectly."

I thanked her.

It was very nice.

Dope moment #2.

Also, I'd been having an XYZ problem although not to the same extent. My wife is going to IC. She put off making the appt, says she called him, but he didn't call back, etc.
Anywho, today I get a call from the IC (he had my number by mistake, they are only 1 digit off) say he saw that she had called and was getting back to her to set things up.

So she did do exactly what she said but the IC was dragging his feet. I hope he can assist her.

Both put me in a pretty good mood today.


Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet.
--Jean Jacques Rousseau.