Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
Weak. And I suspect the good Judge will see it as such.
Starsky
Indeed Starsky. In the response, she even admitted to the EA in Nov/Dec. IDK, that has nothing to with custody, however I don't think that helps her cause.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
Still, her admission is foolish. It may not technically be able to be used for "cause," but it certainly don't help with Hizzoner's overall mood towards your cause, LOL.
In the response, she even admitted to the EA in Nov/Dec
That is odd..
What was the context?
I'm not sure Country. My L was reading it to me while skimming through it. She is preparing a response to file by tomorrow, so I don't want to bother her until that is taken care of.
This is what I gather, my STBX was responding to the letter that was filed with the injunction and her L filed the response without editing her rebuttals.
You know, I was expecting her to call me in complete craziness when she received the injunction. She's been pleasant since I hung up on her. That might be per the advice of her attorney.
Originally Posted By: Starsky309
I assume Cali is a "no-fault" state for divorce?
Yes, Cali is a "no-fault" state. That's why I thought it was silly to include. Even if it was in response to my letter. Not that I'm complaining.
I'm anxious to get the docs in my hands. What's with having to be patient anyway? This is America.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
Speaking of Karma. My STBX dropped the bomb on me exactly 1 week before my birthday. Our hearing is currently scheduled for her 40th birthday.
That just happened to be the first open date that the judge had available. The irony.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
I met with my L this afternoon about the response from my STBX and her L. All I can say is wow. The response was lengthy. When I have time, I will post more.
We had to respond to their response as it has to get filed tomorrow morning. This time it was massaged and sounds much better than the first one.
I was wrong about the first EA. I stated that it took place Nov/Dec. She corrected me in her response saying it was from Sept to Dec, however that had nothing to do with her wanting a D. Unbelievable. According to her, the straw that broke the camel’s back was when I asked, “when is your mom going to get a job?”
Obviously I am biased to myself, but really?
She also stated that when we moved to SF, that the house I found was filthy. She continued to say that her and her mom cleaned the entire house and I did not lift a finger or say thank you. Apparently the 2 Uhauls and trailers that we brought up, loaded and unloaded themselves. All the furniture put itself together.
My head was spinning while I was reading it. Talk about changing our history. Most of it was crazy. I realize her POV, but crazy.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
I asked my L if this a "no fault" state and if the judge gives a sh!t about any of this. She said, it is a "no fault" state and the judge doesn't care about what I posted above.
STBX did get into saying that I was an absent husband/father and I showed no interest in caring for her or the kids. All I cared about was that we made enough money to pay the bills and didn't worry about her's or the kids emotional needs.
Oh get this, she said that when her mom moved in, everything went downhill in our marriage. No sh!t!!
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
