Hey, I think if he brings D up it's a chance to validate his feelings but also state that is now how I feel and I don't believe in it.
That's the advice my DB Coach gave me hope it helps you. I haven't had a chance to hear from W and see how she feels.
Good luck.
M 38 W 50 S 9, D 6 T 12 M 10 W's 1st EA 4/2007 stopped after confront W's 2nd EA 6/2010 Separated 7/2010 I bomb dropped 7/2010 MC 2/2011 - 3/2011 W bomb dropped 4/2011 Nothing filed or done