Keep things as simple as possible. You have to shift your focus back over to you. And you'll have to do this over and over and over until it clicks.
The more you focus on her, the more confused and torn you're gonna be.
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Yes, I am progressing, but you are right. I do seem stuck. I wish I could just find a job to help keep my mind off of things. I would actually be homeless right now if my mom wasn't helping me with the bills. Yes, it is that bad.
Wishing you could find a job to take your mind off of this?
C'mon now brother, no more wishing. Get after it! And get that job because YOU NEED IT. Don't attach the job part to her or any of this crazy mess.
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I am in such a weird spot. Last night I was thinking that I would love to have her back and then I thought no.....I don't know if I COULD have her back. She used to be such a wonderful person. Now.....she's a snake. I guess now I know why they call it the change of life.
This is what you have to shift back over to you. This is focus and energy that could be better spent on you. You've got some work to do my friend.
Like job hunting and more importantly getting your @ss some sleep.
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Do any of you have any idea why she would be upset about my FB relationship status being "seperated?" I really don't know why that would bother her.
Sure! She most likely does not want to answer to people as to why you're now seperated. There. How's that?
I could sit here all day and eat up this entire thread with "ideas" that won't matter in the end anyway. In the mean time, somewhere out there, your job, along with many more wonderful things are waiting for you.
