On a slightly different matter and not sure if anyone can help, but with w’s latest claim to being abused at 14 (w not been specific, understandable though ), could someone throw any light on the following.
W claims she was abused by a family friend whilst all away on holiday, but would a victim of abuse like this agree some 3 years latter to have some driving lessons with the abuser and, latter on use abusers car ( ask or being offered it for use, not sure). I cannot help but think the abused would avoid contact, but then battered wives return all too often.
Well maybe this is part of her MLC.
Childhood issues normally are one ingredient for this crisis.
So maybe (and I am mind reading) that she has not forgiven herself yet from what happened. She may need to go back to that period of time and finish growing up. That is somewhat of a definition of MLC.
Glad the links are helping you out, keep reading and ask questions.
