Rereading my last thread, I guess there's some good news. I'm in daily contact with the husband of his affair partner, and other than one little blip in her resolve, they've decided to work on their relationship.

He also spent some time asking me about some statements my H had made to his W about our relationship - obviously a lot of it was "rewriting history", and some of it was just plain untrue. He shared some of the untrue things his W had told my H - it's amazing how many lies they told each other (and probably themselves) in the course of 2 short months.

I guess if you're going to abandon your family and kids (he and she both have kids), you need to convince yourself it's really awful, and you have to lie to yourself to do it.

MC today. We'll see how it goes.


H: 39, Me: 37
SD: 18, S: 7
M: 9, T: 10
"I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11
Discovered online affair - 7/11