You can solve that rpoblem, but without addressing the underlying issues? What's to prevent it from happening again?
By not convincing people that this should be acceptable behavior in a relationship. By not propagating the myth that their spouse is in a "mid-life-crisis" and they are confused by "fog" or "abducted by aliens" and that is why they are doing what they are doing. "Its a phase", I have heard it called here. That is Baloney. By hanging in there you are condoning it weather it is breaking your heart or not.
You are not addressing the "underlying issues" by suggesting some guy mow the lawn, or do the dishes, or buy a new pair of slacks. If those are the reasons your wife is in bed with another man. You are married to the WRONG person. And you are not going to address the "underlying issues" while she is IN LOVE with some other guy. You can slap me with not everyone's the same or one size don't fit all, but you are fooling yourself if you think they are coming home because of some new cologne.
People like sex, man. People love sex. Sex is good. It is totally understandable from my experience why people have affairs. But I am not understanding why you would argue pro-cuckoldry. SAD.
