I asked:

How long should it take?

Not how many times a wife should 'sleep' with another man. Once is bad enough, is there a number that is worse than once?

Marriages can survive affairs.

Here its about Divorce Busting and rebuilding a marriage.

Not Affair Busting.

You can solve that rpoblem, but without addressing the underlying issues? What's to prevent it from happening again?

Sharing is more about equitable. Sharing dinner, or ice cream. So I don't see many spouses here, sharing their wife or husband.
"Oh goodie! My turn!"

An Affair is more about 'theft' I guess if the spouse is a possesion without free will. Broken trust.


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