Just realised the typo. on my first post, we’re both 47 and not 37, just in case anyone thought it all sounded a little odd!
Been reading the material listed by Cadet, and very helpful this has been.
On a slightly different matter and not sure if anyone can help, but with w’s latest claim to being abused at 14 (w not been specific, understandable though ), could someone throw any light on the following.
W claims she was abused by a family friend whilst all away on holiday, but would a victim of abuse like this agree some 3 years latter to have some driving lessons with the abuser and, latter on use abusers car ( ask or being offered it for use, not sure). I cannot help but think the abused would avoid contact, but then battered wives return all too often.
Any insight would be appreciated.
Anyway I am working on me and trying not to look at her.
