Tired

[Lonely Room]

Seminolewind, thank you very much. Your words are impressive, I know all those things, I've read the books, but somehow I don't "feel" them yet. But I will, because that seems to be what happens to most of us.

Lately I've been thinking about practical things like bank accounts, assets, goods, and even divorce. I contacted my wife regarding money, car, etc. a couple of times, always when it's necessary and in an unemotional manner. She never contacted me about those subjects.

But when do you decide that DB'ing is going for too long? If two months passed and nothing happened, should I contact my wife and ask her what exactly she wants? If it's a divorce, if it's more time? Or should I just keep waiting?

Thank you again, regards.