Letting go is hard to do!

[Queen_of_Swords]

Glad I can help Seminole.
I wanted to insure you came off sounding strong and manly.

I know that I can’t save my marriage at this point and really it doesn’t matter. I know that if I keep my head held high and keep doing the right things she might eventually notice. Heck I don’t think we have even made it to the 7th inning stretch at this point. I have nothing better to do with my life other than be the best dad and man possible. Will she ever see me as that man? At this point it doesn’t matter,

Amen brother, amen.
I'm in that same place. My marriage is as dead as roadkill on the highway of life.

If he wants me back, he knows where I am. If he wants to return, he's going to have to decide that the hard work on HIMSELF is worth it for HIMSELF and our kids, because I won't take him back without him addressing his "stuff".
If he's happy being a part-time Dad, working insanely, and living the life of a virtual hermit ( from my POV and what I observe) that's his choice too.

If he has absolutely no interest in the woman I've become and am still becoming, well that's his loss. My kids and my immidate family have already benefitted from my changes.

(((Seminole)))