Thanks so much for the input.

I know you are right. IT is incredibly difficult for me right now not to just want to waltz back into the relationship but I KNOW that will be difficult.

Fear plays a role and I have to get rid of fear. I afraid if she doesnt come back soon, she will change her mind. BUT i also i afraid that I may change my mind and become agitated that I have to go through this.

Just have to refocus and get my balance again.

Thanks so much for the article.

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BITS
M-46
W-42
M-16y
T-19 y
s10 s15
BombDec.19/09
Sep-F16/10
Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10
Recon July 5/10
PA foundOut- Oct 30/10
Mental HospNov/10
moved out Nov/10
Leg Sep Mar 15/11